Crochet: Slouchy Beret Finished?

So here's my slouchy beret that I finished.

The thing is, it looks just like a regular beret to me. Kind of.

When I think of a slouchy beret, there is a certain kind of look that I think of.

And what I have done, doesn't really look it. I had posted this type of question on my facebook page, and I got some really good suggestions on what my problem is. Well, not really problem, it's just that I am a tight knitter and a tight crocheter. Someone suggested that I crochet with a larger needle, when I'm trying to get a looser look. Since, I could just tell, as I was crocheting, that mine wasn't turning out the way that I thought it should.

Here's some pictures of what I think a slouchy beret should look like:

I can't even tell you why I think these look it, and mine doesn't. I can't even describe it. It's like when is a beret a slouchy beret, and when is a slouchy beret a rasta hat. Now a tam, I can describe. It's not slouchy and it's not even beret-like. It's just kind of sits on the head, like a round box.

Anyway, my next thoughts are, should I add a rose to this slouchy beret or not?